“THE ONLY RAPTURE TODAY IS THE ONE OF LOVE, NOW LIVE IT”
Author Elaina Deva Proffitt
“This book is written with the hope that it will help those who are facing life threatening illness and for their loved ones that they may have a deeper understanding of what happens during those days months and years. It is to remind you that you are not alone. During the process of a serious life threatening illness there is a constant cycle of feeling better one minute and then falling back into the pain never knowing when it will arrive again. The hours, days and weeks blend together and decision making at times becomes clouded. It is so exhausting and it is again just writing about these repetitive episodes. Serious life threatening illness or trauma cause’s one to be still many times in bed or while having treatments and testing. This brings us a lot of time to think about many things including what we have done with our life and reveals our true relationships with family members and friends. The discovery of who steps up to support and those who do not can be hurtful but also when spirit surprise’s us with those who do arrive can be humbling.”
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Spritual Grief and Loss Counselor Families who have had a violent loss of a loved one.
Families of Victims of violent crimes
Spiritual grief and loss counseling using her natural abilities as an Afterlife
Communicator and energy medicine practitioner she is available for those who are have lost loved ones to violent death.
She also has had a large grief and loss practice since 1986 and has worked in conjunction with Therapists in a variety of levels
Counseling the families who have lost loved one to Violent crimes since 1986 She is also available as a Speaker
TESTIMONIAL -Elaina Deva Proffitt
“In my heart and my mind I took great comfort in the words Elaina shared with me and the answers she gave me brought a measure of peace to my heart.
Had I not met Elaina I would still be struggling with this but she put my mind at ease. She is the real deal, someone I trust with my loved ones memories here on earth, and someone I can turn to when I am confused or need some direction. I am eternally grateful to her.”
All Roads would have Led to the same place..DEATH & HEAVEN..The difference is ONE would be filled with unnecessary horrific agony pain and suffering and her family watching her helpless..
The SECOND one IS to close her eyes peaceful with her family having THAT one for their LAST Memory-such a sacred giving and selfless act
It is the hardest decision a loved one has to make it is the moment of the Greatest Unconditional Love an act in our life..to “Allow” that precious soul to leave. It takes courage and trust in that moment we must bring all of our spiritual beliefs of an afterlife onto the table.
Only the Unknowing & in truth Selfish try to justify their prolonging the suffering of their loved one when they know it is way past time to let go using their “God” as the reason…For if they Believe in Heaven then there should Be no Fear nor Condemning of Other’s who have the Right to Say Goodbye in the peaceful manner and leave with dignity.
If others could get into her body you would understand there is a choice…it is not suicide for that is chosen by the living!
The Rare form of Cancer was spreading like wild fire throughout her brain she had a horrible seizure as they said she would. That it was a horrific way to die.
No need to continue..the end had started and there was no turning back only more agony should she remain.
It is not giving up it IS “Letting Go” of the worn out tortured body..
Anyone who believes in Heaven Should Get that..it is their FEAR of death that blinds their eyes from seeing that we step into that beautiful place and all reconnect down the road. Every Dying person I have worked with I never say “goodbye” to them. I have always at some point whispered to them
“I’ll see you down the road” some smile or give a nod.
I KNOW from personal experience when I went to the other side I have been there At last I was free from Pain Agony horrible suffering. With each month that went by I was it seemed more outside my body then in it trying so hard to leave the pain that would not be calmed anymore by powerful drugs. I had for months started to not want to eat and sips of water..it did not matter anymore. I was floating between worlds
So many want feeding tubes and machines used to keep that body alive and do not realize that not eating drinking is part of the natural process of dying..feeding only prolongs the inevitable …Death
I was sent back as others through time to teach there is a place.. a real place we go and it is a Sacred and Beautiful, Loving Place….That is Truth and despite those who preach it is wrong they will have an awakening and new Understanding and knowing when it is their turn to wallow in pointless agony. They will understand at last that book that had be re-written by man not God for so long since the Prophets died that those like Brittany ARE allowed in heaven for the Real God is not a Selfish Cruel One..only Compassion.
There is the moment when there is no return to health for it is time to “Go Home” no more testing medications that make us sicker then we already are. Poking us with needles to the point that their are few veins left.
It is Time to “Let Go”
-You are Free Now Brittany Rest in Peace Angel it was a loving gift you gave your loved ones a chance to say “Goodbye” in a more humane way for them also..
We never get over the loss of a loved one but there will come the time when your grieving becomes different. You will as time goes by have more “Good Days” for periods of time and then there will be something that triggers the reminder that your loved one is not on earth anymore bringing tears and that heart wound alive once again remembering that moment in your life when it arrived. You then find yourself having to “walk through that pain” once again sometimes it is more intense others, a bittersweet longing, loving… and uncontrollable tears.
Just breathe deep,exhale, allow them to flow push through those seconds, minutes and hours until you once again put on a more comfortable face
There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love.
Do not hold them in..let them fall like a wild storm at sea.., until one day you will find..they have become a peaceful sacred pool of only love…and your beloved ever so near..
“The month when life ended and began anew. A time when after months of agonizing pain,at last I could not fight to live anymore, feeling like I was hanging on to what is called “life,” as if my hand was holding the string of a balloon floating higher and higher away from this world.. becoming light as a feather heading towards the Unknown. I knew it was just a matter of a few days when that last conscious moment upon earth would arrive bringing the end of my life at last. My weakened emaciated body could not take any more. Waiting for them to take me into the operating room there was a Sacred “presence” in my room that gave me comfort. I made peace with my God asking forgiveness for any trespasses should I have made, drifting in and out of consciousness I began sending prayers to my loved ones, my son that he be blessed and know he is loved so much. ..My prayers a continuous whisper as I was wheeled through that last door into the room.
Now, Laying upon the table in the operating room I knew this was the last stop. -I had to get prepared now for the unknown-I can only tell you it was like trying to talk yourself into jumping off a high cliff-diving board-The beeps of the heart monitors whispered to get ready to go..A shimmer of light was in the room as I felt the sedatives start to run through me..the faces of my family loved one flying in front of me..sending them love and a last goodbye..countdown was arriving..feeling it was the last ticket to ride there was no other way to go but into that black velvet that was taking me…As a child when afraid.. asking Jesus to help me..now feeling lite as a feather with each last conscious breath.whispering ..”Now I lay me down to sleep I pray the Lord my Soul to Keep..if I should die”…… descending into darkness…into a light