“THE ONLY RAPTURE TODAY IS THE ONE OF LOVE, NOW LIVE IT”
Author Elaina Deva Proffitt
“This book is written with the hope that it will help those who are facing life threatening illness and for their loved ones that they may have a deeper understanding of what happens during those days months and years. It is to remind you that you are not alone. During the process of a serious life threatening illness there is a constant cycle of feeling better one minute and then falling back into the pain never knowing when it will arrive again. The hours, days and weeks blend together and decision making at times becomes clouded. It is so exhausting and it is again just writing about these repetitive episodes. Serious life threatening illness or trauma cause’s one to be still many times in bed or while having treatments and testing. This brings us a lot of time to think about many things including what we have done with our life and reveals our true relationships with family members and friends. The discovery of who steps up to support and those who do not can be hurtful but also when spirit surprise’s us with those who do arrive can be humbling.”
“I would find all through this life that near death experience’s come in many ways. Since mine, I have counseled many who have had this journey also in a variety of ways and when working hospice have found that the client will most times speak very open and deeply to me. Through life for some reason people have whispered their secrets to me and I would find that this would occur even in the area of dying. Having an extensive background arrive in Grief and Loss Counseling also would be given to me and through my work as a psychic detective on murder cases. Soon, I would find Homicide Investigators would then refer at times the victim’s families. I would also find myself doing Hospice work throughout the years. When a loved one is dying, there are many dialogues going on within them daily as they experience this mysterious process. Each person has a unique experience and it is not only a physical process, it is also occurring on the more hidden levels; the mind, the emotions and the spiritual levels that are a part of making us what is called a human being upon this earth. They say that when you are dying your life flashes before you. While I can only speak for myself this saying is true but it is also happening on deeper levels each day before leaving this body. I have found for myself that also for those of us that have gone to the other side, “outside of our body” then returned, there are many reflections of life that continue after this event as we carry on once more upon this earth. There are constant waves of what I call “whispers” from so many levels as your senses are now seeing and feeling from a whole new perspective. It is hard to explain with words. The rational reasoning mind has been altered with unexplained flashes of scenes being revealed in an uncontrolled manner. At times, there is only a “knowing” that life has changed.” © 2016 Elaina Deva Proffitt
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It’s May and the Lilacs are Blooming
One foot on Earth and One in Heaven
Victims of Violent Crimes
Spritual Grief and Loss Counselor Families who have had a violent loss of a loved one.
Families of Victims of violent crimes
Spiritual grief and loss counseling using her natural abilities as an Afterlife
Communicator and energy medicine practitioner she is available for those who are have lost loved ones to violent death.
She also has had a large grief and loss practice since 1986 and has worked in conjunction with Therapists in a variety of levels
Counseling the families who have lost loved one to Violent crimes since 1986 She is also available as a Speaker
TESTIMONIAL -Elaina Deva Proffitt
“In my heart and my mind I took great comfort in the words Elaina shared with me and the answers she gave me brought a measure of peace to my heart.
Had I not met Elaina I would still be struggling with this but she put my mind at ease. She is the real deal, someone I trust with my loved ones memories here on earth, and someone I can turn to when I am confused or need some direction. I am eternally grateful to her.”
Peer Advocate/Violent Loss
San Diego, CA 92143 Victims of Violent Crimes
Do You Not Know Beloveds
All Roads would have Led to the same place..DEATH & HEAVEN..The difference is ONE would be filled with unnecessary horrific agony pain and suffering and her family watching her helpless..
The SECOND one IS to close her eyes peaceful with her family having THAT one for their LAST Memory-such a sacred giving and selfless act
It is the hardest decision a loved one has to make it is the moment of the Greatest Unconditional Love an act in our life..to “Allow” that precious soul to leave. It takes courage and trust in that moment we must bring all of our spiritual beliefs of an afterlife onto the table.
Only the Unknowing & in truth Selfish try to justify their prolonging the suffering of their loved one when they know it is way past time to let go using their “God” as the reason…For if they Believe in Heaven then there should Be no Fear nor Condemning of Other’s who have the Right to Say Goodbye in the peaceful manner and leave with dignity.
If others could get into her body you would understand there is a choice…it is not suicide for that is chosen by the living!
The Rare form of Cancer was spreading like wild fire throughout her brain she had a horrible seizure as they said she would. That it was a horrific way to die.
No need to continue..the end had started and there was no turning back only more agony should she remain.
It is not giving up it IS “Letting Go” of the worn out tortured body..
Anyone who believes in Heaven Should Get that..it is their FEAR of death that blinds their eyes from seeing that we step into that beautiful place and all reconnect down the road. Every Dying person I have worked with I never say “goodbye” to them. I have always at some point whispered to them
“I’ll see you down the road” some smile or give a nod.
I KNOW from personal experience when I went to the other side I have been there At last I was free from Pain Agony horrible suffering. With each month that went by I was it seemed more outside my body then in it trying so hard to leave the pain that would not be calmed anymore by powerful drugs. I had for months started to not want to eat and sips of water..it did not matter anymore. I was floating between worlds
So many want feeding tubes and machines used to keep that body alive and do not realize that not eating drinking is part of the natural process of dying..feeding only prolongs the inevitable …Death
I was sent back as others through time to teach there is a place.. a real place we go and it is a Sacred and Beautiful, Loving Place….That is Truth and despite those who preach it is wrong they will have an awakening and new Understanding and knowing when it is their turn to wallow in pointless agony. They will understand at last that book that had be re-written by man not God for so long since the Prophets died that those like Brittany ARE allowed in heaven for the Real God is not a Selfish Cruel One..only Compassion.
There is the moment when there is no return to health for it is time to “Go Home” no more testing medications that make us sicker then we already are. Poking us with needles to the point that their are few veins left.
It is Time to “Let Go”
-You are Free Now Brittany Rest in Peace Angel it was a loving gift you gave your loved ones a chance to say “Goodbye” in a more humane way for them also..
To Die with Dignity
Love Peace & Light!
So many are crossing over these days..the gate is open once more..Souls are weary and longing to be free again from suffering and Dis-ease..
Do not weep for them but Celebrate that they are healed and in a better place..
Take Comfort knowing that All will be together again down the road..
Have no guilt when you find some joy still upon this earth..for there is still work to do
Stay in the “Moment” not in the past..
May You Be in Peace and feel a sweet
Heavenly Love sent to you..
Elaina Deva Proffitt
“For Many of us “Mothers Day is now a Heavenly Celebration..”
-Elaina Deva Proffitt
This work that has been given can be so heavy at times. It takes a strong spirit, body and mind to walk through the valley and shadow of death frequently..sometimes more then others. For some reason there has been in the last four weeks a lot of Mothers heading for Heaven..I have been on overload with this heavy walk of sorrow yet I have no regrets for this work that I do with those who are “going home” and also their loved ones .
Being an empath means that I feel more deeply then most when I am connected with people In the good times and in the dark times. Does not matter whether near or far, I feel the family member and the person who is getting ready for transition deeply and the positive is that it guides me to how to bring the right energy for both of them.
Past couple of weeks there have been Late nights on the phone with a friend who had been sitting every day and night at the health care place where her Mother has been hanging on for weeks it had been her choice to not have a feeding tube or life supports which is at times disturbing to the family as your body start shutting down unable to eat or drink and it is hard for others to understand that this is the natural steps to leaving the body..I told her that when I was at that stage I was light as a feather and going in and out of the pain filled body. Others eyes could not see that as they were focused on the flesh. I told her that who was meant to be in that room when she took her last breath would be there but that was between her and God. It is always wondrous how it happens and the chain of events that lead up to those who are in the room or not there. I told her the time would be coming soon and that they needed to decided what to do.
Finally all involved got to the place where they could say “goodbye” releasing her from hanging on any longer. My friend told her “Mommy you have to go to heaven now its time.” Then telling her of all the loved ones that would be waiting for her and arriving soon to take her with them into the light!
I have found even from my own experience that each soul is different in how they want to take that last breath. Some want to be surrounded by loved ones others want privacy and this is always a sensitive topic when working with family. I have seen so many hang on and no matter how much their loved one is suffering continue to want them to linger. It takes time and great growth and unconditional love to get to the place where you can start stepping out of your fear and out of the room, even going home to get some much needed sleep. Once you start doing that then the energy shifts and the Angels arrive.
I thought it was a wonderful loving act when my friend told her Mother that they were going to wash her hair fix it nice and paint her fingernails to get ready to “Go Home” her Mother had always had her nails done and her hair had taken care of her appearance. Now even though she was to thin and gaunt it perked her up and was soothing comfort for her. I knew that it was not only hours not days before she went into the light! For weeks She had been on low dose of pain medication to be clear so she and her family could have time together and each one privately have closure with one another. While a stoke prevented her from speaking a lot they communication was there! But now it was the time to “Let Go and Let God” and this Soul make contact there was no need for not having what was needed to take away that pain.
They increased her morphine to comfort her and she peaceful drifted in and out..
Last night she was finally able to “Go to Heaven” privately with a nurse holding her hand. While there is sorrow, their is also peace and comfort for all of them through the many things they did each day and night with her for so long.
We had a plan a goal and left the rest up to the Higher Power…
The two days before another left every day and now she joined them..
This was the month I was to release my book but the week before we were to do the final quick edit and then she was going to do the layout and book cover her Mother was hospitalized. My friend told me “I am unable to work on this now am so sorry” While part of me was sad after all the years and hard then thinking I was at the end and having another block, I still knew that this also was and is for a reason. That I must gather strength and reach and help her Mother, her and her family.. I could feel the moment her Mother passed as their was a freeing up within me before I received the phone call that late morning.
I have always had them visit me before I am notified my family members and friends and the sadness grieving and tears start before the phone rings… I know what is waiting on the end of the line..
I am weary but have no regrets
Be in Light!
Elaina Deva Proffitt
We never get over the loss of a loved one but there will come the time when your grieving becomes different. You will as time goes by have more “Good Days” for periods of time and then there will be something that triggers the reminder that your loved one is not on earth anymore bringing tears and that heart wound alive once again remembering that moment in your life when it arrived. You then find yourself having to “walk through that pain” once again sometimes it is more intense others, a bittersweet longing, loving… and uncontrollable tears.
Just breathe deep,exhale, allow them to flow push through those seconds, minutes and hours until you once again put on a more comfortable face