This is my Candle Ceremony for the children who have been Murdered and the families that grieve so deeply.. Every Year the are remembered also. I have see too many through the years and we must protect little ones from the monsters.
🕯️COMPASSIONATE FRIENDS Candle Ceremony for Children who died is happening now.. 😇🕯️😇🕯️😇🕯️😇🕯️ My little ones will haunt me to the end.. precious little souls suffered at the hands of monsters. They also will haunt the Detectives who work their cases. Their date of death and the manner in which they died haunts the Investigators also Remember every Year. Working on Cases with Children involved is so heartbreaking because I go deep into a place “feeling them as they were assaulted and killed.” It is Terrifying. But I have No Regrets.
YOU ALL & THE REST ARE SWEET ANGLES NOW..
I have more to add but they are packed away. I want to make a photo framed of all of them.
😇Charles & Jennifer Chia 😇 Got off the school bus and simply disappeared their remains found in the trees near a rest stop. months later in Portola area Their Mother gave me a beautiful Kuan Yin after we buried them. I will have it cremated with me.
😇Monica DaSilva😇 was taken from a back window of an apartment. “She was with her mother and younger brother. They watched a movie together and it was then… Monica went to her room to go to sleep. That would be the last time Monica’s mother saw her daughter and her younger brother saw his sister. I will never forget being taken into her bedroom her small bed that window..and in her closet was hanging only one school dress. She had few toys the family struggled. I will never forget the call that night 3 weeks later when the Detective told me they found her remain in a canyon.
😇Christopher Michael Barrios Jr.😇 was a 6-year-old boy who was raped and murdered in Brunswick, Georgia, on March 8, 2007. His body was discovered on March 15, 2007, just a few miles from where he disappeared. He was forced to beg his rapists to let him go, “Please don’t do that” he said. This sweet boy also will never be forgotten.. 🙏💜🙏💔
A SWEET LITTLE ANGEL
SO SORRY THIS HAPPENED TO ALL OF YOU YOU ARE HEALED AND SAFE LITTLE ONES. YOU WILL SEE
“I saw an Angel in the marble and carved until I set it free.”
Children are always wrapped in wings taken to heaven I have seen this when I had my Near Death Experience and at times when I am counseling someone..it is a most humbling experience. There is a Chapter in the book about children when they die..
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Since her Near Death Experience
in 1986 she has had a large Grief and Loss Practice using her abilities as a strong medium and has worked in conjunction with those in deep physical and emotional pain also with traditional therapists and medical professionals since 1986.
Finding her healing abilities enhanced since her NDE she also works with those who are in Hospice using her abilities to help soothe.
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TESTIMONIAL -Elaina Deva Proffitt
“In my heart and my mind I took great comfort in the words Elaina shared with me and the answers she gave me brought a measure of peace to my heart.
Had I not met Elaina I would still be struggling with this but she put my mind at ease. She is the real deal, someone I trust with my loved ones memories here on earth, and someone I can turn to when I am confused or need some direction. I am eternally grateful to her.”
So many are crossing over these days..the gate is open once more..Souls are weary and longing to be free again from suffering and Dis-ease..
Do not weep for them but Celebrate that they are healed and in a better place..
Take Comfort knowing that All will be together again down the road..
Have no guilt when you find some joy still upon this earth..for there is still work to do
Stay in the “Moment” not in the past..
May You Be in Peace and feel a sweet
Heavenly Love sent to you..
A Mothers Love is always near even when she is in Heaven
“For Many of us “Mothers Day is now a Heavenly Celebration..”
-Elaina Deva Proffitt
This work that has been given can be so heavy at times. It takes a strong spirit, body and mind to walk through the valley and shadow of death frequently..sometimes more then others. For some reason there has been in the last four weeks a lot of Mothers heading for Heaven..I have been on overload with this heavy walk of sorrow yet I have no regrets for this work that I do with those who are “going home” and also their loved ones .
Being an empath means that I feel more deeply then most when I am connected with people In the good times and in the dark times. Does not matter whether near or far, I feel the family member and the person who is getting ready for transition deeply and the positive is that it guides me to how to bring the right energy for both of them.
Past couple of weeks there have been Late nights on the phone with a friend who had been sitting every day and night at the health care place where her Mother has been hanging on for weeks it had been her choice to not have a feeding tube or life supports which is at times disturbing to the family as your body start shutting down unable to eat or drink and it is hard for others to understand that this is the natural steps to leaving the body..I told her that when I was at that stage I was light as a feather and going in and out of the pain filled body. Others eyes could not see that as they were focused on the flesh. I told her that who was meant to be in that room when she took her last breath would be there but that was between her and God. It is always wondrous how it happens and the chain of events that lead up to those who are in the room or not there. I told her the time would be coming soon and that they needed to decided what to do.
Finally all involved got to the place where they could say “goodbye” releasing her from hanging on any longer. My friend told her “Mommy you have to go to heaven now its time.” Then telling her of all the loved ones that would be waiting for her and arriving soon to take her with them into the light!
I have found even from my own experience that each soul is different in how they want to take that last breath. Some want to be surrounded by loved ones others want privacy and this is always a sensitive topic when working with family. I have seen so many hang on and no matter how much their loved one is suffering continue to want them to linger. It takes time and great growth and unconditional love to get to the place where you can start stepping out of your fear and out of the room, even going home to get some much needed sleep. Once you start doing that then the energy shifts and the Angels arrive.
I thought it was a wonderful loving act when my friend told her Mother that they were going to wash her hair fix it nice and paint her fingernails to get ready to “Go Home” her Mother had always had her nails done and her hair had taken care of her appearance. Now even though she was to thin and gaunt it perked her up and was soothing comfort for her. I knew that it was not only hours not days before she went into the light! For weeks She had been on low dose of pain medication to be clear so she and her family could have time together and each one privately have closure with one another. While a stoke prevented her from speaking a lot they communication was there! But now it was the time to “Let Go and Let God” and this Soul make contact there was no need for not having what was needed to take away that pain.
They increased her morphine to comfort her and she peaceful drifted in and out..
Last night she was finally able to “Go to Heaven” privately with a nurse holding her hand. While there is sorrow, their is also peace and comfort for all of them through the many things they did each day and night with her for so long.
We had a plan a goal and left the rest up to the Higher Power…
The two days before another left every day and now she joined them..
This was the month I was to release my book but the week before we were to do the final quick edit and then she was going to do the layout and book cover her Mother was hospitalized. My friend told me “I am unable to work on this now am so sorry” While part of me was sad after all the years and hard then thinking I was at the end and having another block, I still knew that this also was and is for a reason. That I must gather strength and reach and help her Mother, her and her family.. I could feel the moment her Mother passed as their was a freeing up within me before I received the phone call that late morning.
I have always had them visit me before I am notified my family members and friends and the sadness grieving and tears start before the phone rings… I know what is waiting on the end of the line..
We never get over the loss of a loved one but there will come the time when your grieving becomes different. You will as time goes by have more “Good Days” for periods of time and then there will be something that triggers the reminder that your loved one is not on earth anymore bringing tears and that heart wound alive once again remembering that moment in your life when it arrived. You then find yourself having to “walk through that pain” once again sometimes it is more intense others, a bittersweet longing, loving… and uncontrollable tears.
Just breathe deep,exhale, allow them to flow push through those seconds, minutes and hours until you once again put on a more comfortable face