PTSD is activated within us all when we grieve the loss of a loved one.. a Violent Loss hits even harder…. Symptoms include: Anger, Rage, Sleep Deprivation, High Anxiety, Extreme Emotional Highs & Lows, Withdrawal of people, family members and friends not wanting to hear you talk about the death and circumstances … Finding comfort using Alcohol, Tranquilizers,
Have you experienced this? With Whom and Why? Have you been treated ? Grief & Loss Counseling is a good start.. Get Help . Love Yourself Be Good to You One Breath at a Time.. Comfort & Light to You Elaina Deva Proffitt
Pam Reynolds Lowery, “my old friend” as she called me, was a survivor of one of the most extreme Near Death Experience recorded. As stated, I have always known that my life is filled with fated encounters and this amazing woman was one of them in a most powerful way. Pam became my friend on the social networking site called myspace and from the start we had a special connection. She was in the music world her company was Southern Tracks, had recorded music by everyone from Bruce Springsteen to Pearl Jam to REM. She wanted me to come visit and have her friend Elton John to meet me.
I also had many contacts in the music world and my career was starting to blossom on the radio and television circuit. had a regular segment on “Live at Noon” KCRA CH3 Sacramento CA
At last, I found a very special kindred spirit bringing validation and it created an immediate bond between us as we shared our similar experiences with one another. We could see n feel the soul of each other from the first time we met.
We were like two “old friends” as she called us, who had found one another again. It helped us validate that we were not crazy nor alone and that “something” had happened to each of us but just in a different manner.
August 1991.She was in Virginia Beach, Va., with her husband, they were promoting a new record. Suddenly she forgot how to talk! A MRI would reveal an aneurysm on her brain stem. It was already leaking, a ticking time bomb.
November 1985
I also was a ticking time bomb hemorrhaging inside from trauma..my spleen impaled in the tail of my pancreas, which no one wanted to operate on in those days. I was devouring my self for months praying for the right doctor to arrive.
We both had major “loss of Blood Issues” I guess you could say we both were “Drama Queens” It would take two brilliant surgeons “on the cutting edge” to keep us alive. They were our rock stars our human angels.
In our private conversations we both revealed that at times we felt like we were outside our body as if part of us was still in another place.
There was always a sacred feeling when we talked about how we never forgot the feeling we both had that there was a presence of “Something or Someone most powerful” that had been with us when we hovered between life and death each in a different way.
When talking about our NDE experiences it was amazing the similarities in certain parts of this mysterious experience.
Pam’s was a very rare event as her NDE is the most famous in the medical world. Due to a giant basilar artery aneurysm it could not be removed in the typical fashion so she was referred to a Doctor Robert F. Spetzler at the Barrow Neurological Institute in Phoenix, Arizona. Dr. Spetzler had pioneered a very daring radical surgery which was called hyperthermia cardiac arrest.
In a nutshell they dropped her body temperature to 60 degrees, shut down her system including the brain and heart and put her to death’s door then operated on her brain.
It’s May and the Lilacs are Blooming
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One foot on Earth and One in Heaven
Copyright August 26 20017
Elaina Deva Proffitt
Pam had no brain-wave activity and no blood flowing in her brain, which rendered her clinically dead. Once they were finished they then restored her to life!. In conversation one time she spoke of how when they started to cut through her skull with a surgical saw, she felt herself “Pop” outside her body and was hovering above the operating table. She got a kick out of the fact that she at one point was hovering over the surgeons in the operating room and would be able to tell them what they had been doing and talking about.
In 2010 she had contacted me in March stating that she wanted for us to catch up on the phone as it had been a long time since we had done so. She wrote that she had been having health issues again and wanted to talk and for me to please call her.
For those of us who have had these experiences it is always a comfort to have someone that can understand what we had gone through bringing us an unusual bond immediately. We would find that we had a special sisterhood in the short time that we connected.
Pam also was a guest on my Blog Talk radio show and we enjoyed spending the time sharing these experiences. You may go to my website and listen to this amazing conversation.
We felt like we were in a “Closed Club” there was a strong natural affinity between us bring comfort to one another whether near or far. It is one of the things that many of us who have an NDE are compelled to do, sharing this strange experience to help educate and comfort those who have experienced this mystery so they know they are not alone.
Pam’s experience was very extreme do to what happened to her and the surgery. I love and respect her for her strength and faith to go through those operations and recovery. My journey prior to my surgery was a painful one and I also had a complicated operation. We did not know each other during those times but found out we had very similar events occur on what we call the “Other Side.”
In 2009 on the phone we had talked about my coming to see her so we could spend some time together hopefully the coming year.
I am saddened that we were unable to do so, as I had made a long move and while hoping to visit in the near future it would not arrive for us.
After the first of the year as the months passed by, I had been thinking of her on and off and tried to contact her again. Something kept pushing me to find out about her.
One day I put her name in the search engine and found out that she had died. At that moment I knew that she had been visiting me trying to let me know she was gone. We had laughed one time and said that whichever one of us went first we would contact each other. I knew why she did not answer her phone but was communicating with me through whispers. Her last written message to me was;
Hi Sweety, “It’s been awhile since I’ve written. Hope this finds you well and happy. I’ve been in and out of hospital with pulmonary embolisms but have declared my body a bummer free zone so we’ll see what happens. Glad to hear your move went well and hope you’ll be content there. Stop by once in awhile old friend!!!!
Hugs,” Pam Reynolds
That was the last time I heard from Pam. Her words of determination despite the challenges of the body was and still is such an inspiration to so many. It saddens me that we were unable to have a final conversation on the phone here on earth or see one another as planned. I cared deeply about her from the day I met her.
The Intuitive gifts passed down to me in my family had always been strong and when a little girl I could feel people so deeply that at times I would have to get away from them. Even to this day those feelings walk with me and while I have been able to learn how to use them as a tool with others who are in pain or dying it has taken years to learn how to protect myself as best as possible.
Pam was also effected the same way and this was amazing as we both understood another strange likeness we had and heard things more clearly and distinctly than ever before. She also sensed a presence a light at the end of a vortex pulling her away and was the reason we called each other “Sisters of the Light’ What was interesting is that we had not known about each other prior to our meeting and when we talked were amazed at how similar some of the experiences were; such as looking down at my hands mesmerized at how they shimmered with light and I felt no pain, light and even sound. We both had our Grandparents coming for us and “Others” we could not recognize but knew we had some sort of a connection with. We also had an audio experience when out of body, Pam hearing a sound like a natural ‘D’ and my hearing this ” High pitched Whirring sound” accelerating rapidly! The sound seemed to pull her out of her body just as mine did. I also had heard that “Pop” and this was the first time I was hearing from someone else that this had happened also. There were also the similar experiences as to what we felt when we re-entered our bodies” While there are those who do not believe in NDE’s we two knew that “something” powerful and real had happened to us both.
We knew it was Real and that is all that mattered. “They all will have their turn at some point” we would say in conversations. We were “Sisters of the Light” as she called us many times on the phone. At times she would ask me to use the “gifts” to look at her and see how her life force was doing. She knew each day was a gift and time may be short. We made a pack “whoever goes first will send a message.” Regrettably our time was short with one another on this earth plane. Pam would say “goodbye” first and without knowing she was gone, for many months I would feel her crossing my mind, even picking up the phone and calling but no answer. Pam would continue to come into my thoughts and I would find myself talking out loud to her, “Pam where are you girl? I called You!” Finally, a year later I would find myself suddenly searching her name on the internet the announcement of Pam Reynolds death appeared. There is sadness for me that I was not able to hear her voice one more time. We were planning on my coming to visit at some point but it now would not happen on earth. She was an amazing woman, artist and loved her family deeply!
Pam Reynolds died from heart failure going into the light one final time, on Saturday May 22, 2010 at Emory University Hospital, in Atlanta, Georgia.
Looking at the month and the day, I knew she sent me a most powerful message, seeing her smile and hearing her whisper, “Goodbye my “Old friend.”
My NDE was May 26 1986
We know we will see each other again!
Those Lilacs were Blooming for Both of us in May he final message from the grave
It’s May and the Lilacs are Blooming (One foot on Earth and one in Heaven)
George Noory and psychic Elaina Deva Proffitt discuss her work as a psychic medium, and how she has used her powers to help police solve crimes, including the case of a serial killer.
Elaina, has been a featured guest across the country on radio and television Since 1984.
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BACKGROUND
In 1984 she was trained by respected homicide investigator, Rod Englert Multnomah County Sheriff’s Department to be a psychic detective and forensic tool in the world of murder. Englert is a renowned Blood pattern expert and the Author of “Blood Secrets”: Chronicles of a Crime Scene Reconstructionist.
Discovering she had an uncanny ability to profile a suspect and to work crime scenes, keeping a low profile, confidentiality and strong ethics of never compromising a case, there would come a time when she would find the victims’ families being referred to her to give them comfort.
To this day she works with mothers of violent loss.
Speaking to various agencies throughout the years; how to use psychics as a forensic tool, psychic fraud and more. Elaina is a strong supporter of Law Enforcement seeing first hand since 1984 what they endure daily, walking into the line-of-fire each day. The unspeakable horror they see.
“Lots of little girls read Nancy Drew Mysteries and want to become her. Little did I know who and what I would become”
-Elaina Deva Proffitt
This book grabbed my attention through the many twists and turns of Elaina’s life.
There were times when I wept for her and what she went through; and wished that she was beside me, so I could just hug her for a while and comfort her. Her writing makes you feel like you are there with her, on this journey and you just want to protect her because she is such a special soul. Her near death experience had me riveted to every word on the pages. She was blessed with a gift that could only come from God, and she has used that gift to do only good with it. I absolutely loved this book. I have even begun to read it a second time because it is such a fascinating read. I have realized I missed things the first time around, so it is as exciting to read it again as it was the first time I opened the book. I would recommend (and have) this book to anyone who is interested in the spiritual world, life after death, Heaven or anyone that just wants
a good book to read. This is the book for you.
D. Herroz
Victims of Violent Loss Advocate
San Diego CA
Elaina has really captured the intensity of Bob’s NDE. We still feel each moment of that day and carry it with us in our everyday lives. I hope this can provide comfort and hope to others. This book is one that you won’t be able to put down. Nancy Campbell
***** 5 STARS
I just finished reading Elaina’s book, and I found it fascinating, especially the chapters regarding her work with law officials and the chapters regarding her illness resulting in her NDE. Once I began reading her story, I had to make myself put it down (@ 2:30 A.M.!) so that I could get some sleep, and now I have finished it! It’s a great read!
J. Fornville
***** 5 STARS
I love this book! It made me feel like looking through a window into this fascinating life of NDE, discovery, and using a remarkable gift. It never drags and just when you think you are following, it surprises and amazes even more. I am so enjoying this book. Highly recommended.
B. Tate
***** 5 STARS
I loved this book! What a great read and fascinating story of a journey of a woman with an unusual gift and how she went on to use it helping people, talking to the beyond and her work with law enforcement. It is pretty intense and sometime mind blowing but worth the time.
Nancy Kelly Eckloff
***** 5 STARS
Such a great read. Touched me deeply and showed me life on a different level. Highly recommend.
L McKinney
Life does not end with Death
Being born with the gift of psychic abilities is not an easy road. Working alongside homicide detectives to solve horrendous crimes is a dark and energy draining work. But, Elaina Deva Proffitt did all of this and more. In her book, she shares on an intensely deep and intimate level, different aspects of her spiritual journey and the work it led her to do. As it unfolds, the fascinating story takes on multiple dimensions.
She takes us inside crime scenes and describes in detail, the visions, smells, feelings and physical sensations she embodies as she re-lives murders, kidnappings, and suicides. While this work would drain her, she helped detectives solve many crimes and bring justice.
But, when she is faced with a serious physical trauma herself, she embarked on a long, arduous and uncertain path.
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POWERFUL STORY
I had to read small chunks of this book to savor the details and the impact they made on me. Each day I looked forward to returning to the world of Elaina Deva Profitt. I recommend this book to anyone who is interested in life after death or psychics.
Carjalo
*****
Such a great read. Touched me deeply and showed me life on a different level. Highly recommend.
L. Chapman
*****
I love this book! It made me feel like looking through a window into this fascinating life of NDE, discovery, and using a remarkable gift. It never drags and just when you think you are following, it surprises and amazes even more. I am so enjoying this book. Highly recommended.
B.T.
*****
What a great read and fascinating story of a journey of a woman with an unusual gift and how she went on to use it helping people, talking to the beyond and her work with law enforcement. It is pretty intense and sometime mind-blowing but worth the time.
N. Eklof
*****
It’s May and the Lilacs are Blooming is a wonderful book! Elaina’s life is very interesting and found it hard to put the book down! Her sharing her NDE gives me comfort as what awaits us on the other side. Highly recommend this book, especially to those who have lost loved ones.
L.B.
*****
Elaina’s journey was a great and inspiring read. She captures the light in all situations and uses it for justice. An exciting life that reflects another side of love that most people can’t give. Thank you for your work to help detectives solve horrible crimes and for your insight to all you touch!
They can tell you it is only because the brain is shutting down, the powerful anesthesia and drugs, but in truth you are undergoing an Out-of-Body Experience Stepping into another dimension some call Heaven.
Even Now, my rational reasoning mind still has a hard time still has a hard time assimilating the experience.
I understand that this is quite common for those who have had a NDE and find it hard to share this event fearing it was just their imagination, but at the same time they have a deep lingering feeling , a knowing, that something very real happened.”
Even Now, my rational reasoning mind still has a hard time still has a hard time assimilating the experience. I understand that this is quite common for those who have had a NDE and find it hard to share this event fearing it was just their imagination, but at the same time they have a deep lingering feeling , a knowing, that something very real happened.” Elaina Deva Proffitt
Author Afterlife Spiritual Counseling Clairvoyant Medium Grief & Violent Loss Counseling Law Enforcement Bereavement
This is my Candle Ceremony for the children who have been Murdered and the families that grieve so deeply.. Every Year the are remembered also. I have see too many through the years and we must protect little ones from the monsters.
🕯️COMPASSIONATE FRIENDS Candle Ceremony for Children who died is happening now.. 😇🕯️😇🕯️😇🕯️😇🕯️ My little ones will haunt me to the end.. precious little souls suffered at the hands of monsters. They also will haunt the Detectives who work their cases. Their date of death and the manner in which they died haunts the Investigators also Remember every Year. Working on Cases with Children involved is so heartbreaking because I go deep into a place “feeling them as they were assaulted and killed.” It is Terrifying. But I have No Regrets.
YOU ALL & THE REST ARE SWEET ANGLES NOW..
I have more to add but they are packed away. I want to make a photo framed of all of them.
😇Charles & Jennifer Chia 😇 Got off the school bus and simply disappeared their remains found in the trees near a rest stop. months later in Portola area Their Mother gave me a beautiful Kuan Yin after we buried them. I will have it cremated with me.
😇Monica DaSilva😇 was taken from a back window of an apartment. “She was with her mother and younger brother. They watched a movie together and it was then… Monica went to her room to go to sleep. That would be the last time Monica’s mother saw her daughter and her younger brother saw his sister. I will never forget being taken into her bedroom her small bed that window..and in her closet was hanging only one school dress. She had few toys the family struggled. I will never forget the call that night 3 weeks later when the Detective told me they found her remain in a canyon.
😇Christopher Michael Barrios Jr.😇 was a 6-year-old boy who was raped and murdered in Brunswick, Georgia, on March 8, 2007. His body was discovered on March 15, 2007, just a few miles from where he disappeared. He was forced to beg his rapists to let him go, “Please don’t do that” he said. This sweet boy also will never be forgotten.. 🙏💜🙏💔
A SWEET LITTLE ANGEL
SO SORRY THIS HAPPENED TO ALL OF YOU YOU ARE HEALED AND SAFE LITTLE ONES. YOU WILL SEE
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In 1986 upon moving to Reno she would have a near death experience that would once again change her world. She would discover a powerful soothing healing energy would flow through her hands which would be used for pain control for the dying.
When a loved one is dying there are many dialogues going on within them daily as they experience this mysterious process. Each person has a unique experience and it is not only a physical process, it is also occurring on the more hidden levels. The mind, emotions and the spiritual levels are a part of making us what is called a human being upon this earth. They say that when you are dying your life flashes before you. While I can only speak for myself this saying is true, but it is also happening on deeper levels each day before leaving this body. I have found this to be true for myself and for those of us that have gone to the other side… “outside of our body” then returning.
It’s May and the Lilacs Are Blooming One foot on Earth and One in Heaven
“I saw an Angel in the marble and carved until I set it free.”
– Michelangelo
Children are always wrapped in wings taken to heaven I have seen this when I had my Near Death Experience and at times when I am counseling someone..it is a most humbling experience. There is a Chapter in the book about children when they die..
Elaina Deva Proffitt Author 